Us and Them – Part 2: Us

Tribalism Humans are tribal and most of us belong to one or more tribes. Historically, these tribes were heavily influenced by family, location, and religion, and there often were not a lot of options for choosing your own tribe (especially in smaller villages with little diversity). Today, we have a lot more options for choosing our own tribes. Examples of modern tribes include: Family, Friends,…

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Harmony Road Retreats

5 Stars, would recommend Harmony Road Retreats organizes weekend retreats for members of the LDS/Mormon community who are on a faith journey. Their mission is to create compassionate settings where those experiencing faith challenges can heal, learn, and grow. They were fully supportive and made no attempt to steer our journeys in any specific direction (other than healing). I attended a retreat spanning April 11…

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What if all our beliefs are wrong? How would we know, and would we even care?

We all have beliefs, and most of us are pretty sure that our beliefs are correct (and that any belief others have that differs from mine is wrong). Beliefs are energy-saving shortcuts that allow us to get to the truth more quickly. We take the input, filter out the parts that we want to ignore, make some simple inferences based on our beliefs, and voilà…

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I might be retired now?

On Jan 28, 2025 I awoke to an email stating that Nuna (the company that I worked for) was dropping their core business and that I was laid off. I was neither surprised nor upset. The severance package included 2 months paid cobra and a lump sum payment covering 2 months salary. I figured that I’d spend a few days relaxing, and then catch up…

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The LDS/Mormon transgender stance is inconsistent with their teachings

Many people, churches, and religions take a negative stance on transgenderism. This post is not going to argue why I think that they are wrong, but rather, I want to point out that the LDS/Mormon stance is uniquely inconsistent with their other teachings (in ways that probably don’t apply to most other religions). Many religions teach that there is a difference between a soul and…

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Do Christians have better morals than Atheists?

Every few weeks, I see a question posted by Christians on Quora questioning if atheists have morals. For example: “If there is no God, no hell and no heaven, then why have we developed a conscience? Why don’t atheists commit crimes and what stops them?” “This may sound naive, but what keeps an atheist from committing adultery and doing other things that a Christian wouldn’t…

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